I'm Blair. And, I have a thing or two to say about self-love.

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here's the tea ☕

On this blog, you'll find none of the following:

Daily affirmations
Kumbaya sing songs
Goal setting worksheets
Pinterest-worthy quotes
Pinterest-worthy anything on the side

It's just not my bag!

here's the tea ☕

Some of what you will find here includes:

Realistic, pragmatic discussions about all things self-loving, told through the lens of my personal experience
Mildly uncomfortable discussions about mental health and physical wellbeing
Observations on society, and our obsession with happiness, positivity and self-improvement
Some (hopefully) witty anecdotes to ease the mental load required to navigate these tough topics

In short, I’m writing this blog to show my gals, guys, and non-binary babes out there that you don’t have to subscribe to a specific notion of self-love.

To prove that self-love isn’t a whimsical, Instagramable journey. To remind you that the work of growth can be icky, thorny and confusing.
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So let’s take on self - love and shit. On OUR terms. ✌️